My husband and I have been married for 29 years this year, and for most of them he and I have share our Christian Values, but he is now an alchoholic who has lost 3 jobs due to alcholism, is going through rehab, and the same day after going and getting a box of wine to drink in two days… It has now been this way for three years and I’ve prayed, fought, done nothing, threatened, cried, ignored, and prayed more and more and more…. We even listened together on Pastors TV message about submission… and he thought I wanted to hurang him… when Pastor talked about alchohol.  He is NOT physically abusive and I am NOT in danger…. he drinks only here in the house and hibernates…. I’ve tried talking with our Pastor and the reaction is to just LOVE him more and pray…. Please ask our dear Lord to take it away and heal him… I am disabled and fear he wouldn’t be able to help if I fall or need to be driven some where…. I would love to meet Pastor some time I am now listening to his messages on line, but don’t really need a call… To be honest my secretive husband would be more than humiliated… which to me might be a good thing… but I just don’t know any more. – Roxanne B. of Florence OR