My marriage has been failing for months. In July I felt the need to get a restraining order against my husband he did not physically harm me but he scared me enough that I felt like I needed to do something about it. We have been together 17 years and that was not the first time he scared me or was verbally abusive. He blames me for every problem in our marriage and is unwilling to see a marriage counselor with me although I still go see one every week. He ignores me,he ignores his responsibility as the head of this household and spends his energy playing basketball with friends and smoking weed with friends. The children and I are not his priority. We need prayer. – Fella Vasbinder